When sex begins to feel like work then your relationship, entanglement or whatever you call it was over a long time ago. Sex is sweet af but only when done for the right reasons. It should never feel like work, good sex is natural and therapeutic. It has no timetable nor is it scheduled, it just happens that you are horny and bam! And am not talking about these dick appointments people set, am talking about people scheduling sex in relationships. Like you count the number of times you need to smash your girl in a week, I mean where is the fun is this?

No strings attached sex is the best because after y’all have slept together you don’t feel the need to call and pretend to check up on each other. You don’t feel any obligation to do shit because it was just fucking, no one was using another person in fact you used each other. Most people have that one person that whenever they feel horny they just hook up and screw. You are not dating him, you are with him just to satisfy your sexual urges. You don’t see the need keep texting him every damn time because you can stay for like one week without talking and still ride his dick the following week.

It is okay to want sex but not a relationship. Dating these days is a fulltime job, full of drama, complicated and it will have you sleeping mad and stressed like three times a week. So if you feel like you are not ready to commit just yet then get you a ‘friend’ who you can smash without any strings getting attached. You deserve squirts and orgasms in your life and nobody should judge you for being open minded.

Most relationships have very boring sex lives, you feel like you have to smash your girl just to keep the relationship alive. At this point sex has already become work and the funny thing is that some people schedule this shit! This is how people begin to have issues and eventually split up. Now you have made the relationship all about sex and as much as sex is sweet it can also get boring. It is not a must you have sex with her daily, sometimes just watch, go out, go bike riding, watch a movie or just chill and talk. I mean do something fun together and I promise the sex will come naturally and it will be bomb!

No strings attached sex ain’t for everybody though, some want to commit to someone and fall in love, date, buy each other gifts, go out and do all the stuff that comes with a relationship. It’s good because it gives you stability and balance, you know that someone has you your back. You can have a very bad day but you still get to go home to the one you love. Dating can be fun especially with the right person, because let’s be honest, most people are suffering kissing frogs out here like they getting paid.

Love is a good thing, it is rare but when you finally get to experience it you feel like you have found your person. It comes with a lot of challenges but nothing is free right? There is no better feeling than hearing the person you love moaning your name when you are hitting it, therapeutic! Not everybody can date though, some peeps love to be free. Choose your poison and live your life, strings or no strings.

One word though, If you know me am always talking of safe sex. Don’t just sleep around like you are drilling oil, jiheshimu bana. People are sick out here but they won’t tell you, hoe responsibly.

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