Good sex can confuse you into thinking that you are in a relationship with someone. He only calls you on Friday when he is drunk and horny, has never taken you out, never introduced you to any of his friends, all you two talk about is sex and you still think it’s a thing? Wake up, but if the sex is that good then goodnight. Remember this though, they don’t like you, they just had no other option.

Most people plan their sex life which is boring if you ask me, they know who they are gonna smash and when. Weekdays are busy for most people, so they often fuck on weekends. It’s a planned thing, it’s Friday and the person who you were supposed to shag with is starting to behave funny. Later on he/she texts you that they won’t make it, you now go through your phone to see who you can call to salvage this most unfortunate situation. You call her over, you have hot steamy sex and what was about to be a boring weekend is lit up.

Nobody wants to be a booty call but booty call sex is so good because you weren’t even expecting it. You were just lying there with no plans, your phone beeps and it’s a horny soul call you over. Sometimes it can get toxic because you can’t always be horny. There are days you need somebody to talk to, have a deep conversation about life but he just wana fuck. Now you are there feeling lonely but again you can’t just walk away, you’d rather be sexually satisfied than feel miserable. Most people call it the, “toxic d*ck”.

When you are someone’s booty call, they don’t care about anything else about you apart from what you can offer sexually. When you meet he just wants to tear your clothes off, he doesn’t wana know how your day was, how you feel and if you are okay, he just wana hit and make you leave as soon as he is satisfied. It’s just sex, he will only call you when he is horny and the girl he wanted failed to show, on these other days he behaves as if you don’t exist.

Women have booty calls to but it’s different; women fuck who they want but men fuck who they can. So when a woman calls you, just know she really wants you to hit it. They call anytime of the day as long as they have the time and opportunity, when I talk about opportunity am talking to those who are cheating. Most women have feelings for their booty calls, that’s why when your woman cheats you should be worried because your love life is in the shit. Women know what type of sex they want, they manifest it first and when they see an opportunity they grab it with “both hands”……

If someone calls you last minute for something, just know they had no other options. A booty call doesn’t have to be necessarily about sex, it can be road trips, parties, business deals, weddings etc. They have specific people in mind who they wana do things with, if they are not available, now you who is always available is called. They never needed you at all, they had just run out of options.

Being a booty call for anything is the worst, deep down you know they even don’t care about you, You are there as a replacement and you are always going to play second fiddle. You can always refuse though but we all know you can’t just walk away from good sex. These last minutes invites, you can just walk away and maintain your dignity. For business, walking away from money is kinda hard, but there is a level of success where you just walk away from mediocre deals, look for it.

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