Cheaters never own up to their own infidelities, they blame trash sex, alcohol, insensitive partners and money. Someone will be like “I cheated because his sex was trash”, but you can always leave right? Why cheat when you can just break up and look for somebody who will satisfy your sex demons. Most people also blame alcohol when they are caught cheating, it’s not booze it’s you. Same for sensitivity and money, cheating is all fun and games till you start treating STDs and using ARVs.

People have a twisted way of justifying cheating, for example a woman will tell you that she is cheating because she wants better sex, but she can’t leave him because she loves him. If you love him then just tell him the truth, that you are not satisfied sexually. It might bruise his ego but it’s better than smashing his best friend. Sex is all about communication, tell him how you want to be fucked and if it doesn’t work then you can always leave.

Nobody likes to suffer, times have changed and so have women; they want to be spoiled and pampered and this requires money. Young relationships are feeling this pressure especially with older men competing with them for the same girls. It’s not really a competition because these older guys always win, you can never compete with money. They will have sex with your girl and there is nothing you can do about it. But the girl always has a choice of leaving your broke ass for the loaded nigga, only that they know broke niggas give the best sex so they want to have both, sex and money.

If alcohol could speak then it would write a book, it has been used as a scape goat by a lot of people when they are caught cheating. You are in party, you are drunk, hot girls everywhere, you are there dancing then you meet a girl. After a few minutes of grinding you take her to the balcony, you are both horny AF but then you remember you have a girlfriend. You say fuck it and smash her anyways; at that moment you had a choice to make, smash or pass. These things always have a way of coming out, when your girl finally knows you blame alcohol. Did Gilbeys remove her panties? No, you hit knowing too well you are committed to someone else. It’s not alcohol it’s you.

Its human nature to want stability in your life, you want a loyal man, nice home and to be making good money. There are a lot of single people out here, who do you think they are having sex with? Most of them fuck around with people in relationships. A girl can have a very loyal man in her life but there will always be this one man that she just can’t resist. She doesn’t love him, she just loves the way he fucks her and so it will always be about sex nothing more. She will never leave her man to go be with her sex buddy, she needs that stability. Why do this though? You always have a choice to make, cheat or leave.

I have come to realize that most people don’t use protection when having sex, even when cheating. Everybody is hitting it raw, some women say they are allergic to latex while some just don’t want to use it. Now imagine you are dating and you always have unprotected sex, then both of you are cheating, your girl is having unprotected sex with another guy on the side, you are also hitting it raw somewhere else. These two people who you are also cheating with have relationships of their own where they are also cheating. Imagine how an infection can spread amongst all of your situationships, it will be like a plague and all of a sudden all of you have itchy privates. Most of you are more afraid of pregnancies than HIV and STIs, safe sex is good sex. Remember, you always have a choice.

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