CONSENT Sex is very sweet but only when it’s consensual, the girl or man you are with has to explicitly say YES for you to smash, less than that then its rape. But nobody wants to face it, this is why most rape cases go unsolved. The victim is afraid that nobody will believe them…
TOXIC MASCULINITY
For the longest time men have always had an unspoken code not to do things considered ‘womanly’. In the African culture a man crying was a sign of weakness and this goes to show that to be a real man you had to sit in your emotions. In the past roles in the society were…
SEX EDUCATION
African parents have always made it weird to talk about sex in fact they cringe at the sound of it. Traditionally in the african culture a girl was supposed to get married while she was still a virgin othewise she would be considered damaged goods. In situations like this nothing was explained to you, you…
THE DOUBLE LIFE
I don’t know if they are being naïve or our parents are just ignorant. Most of the youths in Kenya are living double lives right under the noses of their parents. In Nairobi guys are partying and living large but when they go to shags they maintain a low profile. You have been drinking whiskey…
WOMEN ARE NOT PIECES OF MEAT.
This week has been hard on women, especially in Kenya. But come to think of it women have always had a hard time its only that it was not given the attention it deserves. Recently a girl by the name Tania Pattni came out with her rape story. She was gang raped last year by…
BLACK LIVES MATTER
The world right now is a harsh place to live in, strange things are happening and it prompted me to write this. We as black people have come a long way, our ancestors fought a lot of battles so that our voice can be hard. There was a time when airing your opinion on certain…
MEN AND SEX
Sex, people love it but are not comfortable talking about it. It’s funny how we can enjoy something but not want to talk about it. Men love sex, it’s an obvious fact that men and sex are best friends but which one? Sex was originally meant for procreation but in Nairobi it’s a staple food….
NAIROBI IS A SEX DEN
Nairobi is the capital city of sex in Kenya, it’s a huge bedroom where people smash and pretend not to know each other when they meet in the streets. Your wife is eaten and returned to you like ‘I believe this belongs to you?’ Married men with money to burn get young girls who are…
LIFE AND DEATH
Life is a precious gift that we enjoy every second we breathe. Sometimes people decide they no longer want this gift so they end it. Committing suicide is not easy, the amount of pain that drives you to take your own life is unimaginable. Suicide is planned, before a person finally ends it they must…
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Violence in relationships is not a new thing, it has always been there. Violence doesn’t have to be physical to be called so, words too can hurt. In the past during our great grand parents’ time men used to beat up their wives and call it discipline. Nobody thought giving a little ‘discipline’ to your…